Last week it was revealed to widespread surprise and
disappointment that the late Sir Jimmy Savile (DJ, TV presenter, celebrity and
charity fundraiser) was the subject of multiple posthumous allegations of child
abuse. However the most worrying revelation of all was surely the reporting, by
Hugo Rifkind in The Times, that at least one such criminal offence had been
detailed in Savile’s autobiography, published in 1974. (See http://is.gd/7JUhgT).
Rifkind’s conclusion, published without great commentary, is
that Savile’s abuse of young women was not a secret, but it still went
unremarked. He concludes: “I’m not sure what the
lesson of all this is, but if there is one, it’s horribly bleak.” I
suggest that there are, in fact, two conclusions – and one of them is indeed very
bleak.
The first, and more cheerful,
implication of the Savile-saga is that we are a great deal more sensitive to
issues surrounding the violation of children’s rights by adults than we
were. In the 38 years since the
publication of his book, a great deal has been achieved which has helped to
protect children born since the 70s. Much progress has been made as a result of
the persistence and enormous contribution of those who have lobbied government
and established charities to support the victims of such abuse. Esther Rantzen
is among the best known of those who have changed the common culture, so that
what may have been unremarkable in 1974 would now be very remarkable indeed.
This does not mean, of
course, that children are completely safe from violation by adults, not even in
the UK. But it does represent a change in circumstances – the loss of a
blindness – which is something to be celebrated.
There is, however, a second
consequence. And it is bleak. One of the lessons here is that every generation
has its blindness. That blindness is shockingly evident to succeeding
generations. Sometimes it is risible. The fact that sensible people once
thought that covering table legs was a way of preventing sexual passions from
being inflamed is one example of successive generations being able to see the
absurdity, and sometimes the hypocrisy, that was hidden at the time.
And so recent news begs this
vital question: what is it that adults are currently doing to children, which
in some way violates their rights, and is damaging to them – and which we are
blind to? About which elements of our culture will commentators express
incredulity that we failed to discern the damage to young lives to which we
contributed, or at least failed to prevent?
Sitting in a provincial
airport at the end of a conference last week, surrounded by fellow
headteachers, I asked this question. We struggled to think of any which had the
same potential for damage to young lives, but the consensus might surprise some
readers. One head expressed it best when she suggested that the excessive
supervision and control of young people by parents, who deny children independence
and a normal scope of decision-making might be seen as risible by our children
or grandchildren. It seems to me to be a very sensible starting point, but
there may be other ideas which are equally worthy of consideration.
Each answer
may not, of course, be as important as continuing to ask the question.
I read an article the other day that worried me hugely. I found it in a new magazine called Digital Parenting http://asp-gb.secure-zone.net/v2/index.jsp?id=1134/2660/5747&lng=en. Flicking through it this list stood out. It was actually two lists, the first was what children aged 5-13 can do: this included, working a DVD player, logging on to the internet, searching for clips on Youtube, make a phone call, work Skype ... you get the picture. Then there was the list of things children can't do, and these included, being able to recognise a sparrow, robin or blackbird, tie a reef knot, read a map, put up a tent, make papier mache and make a cup of tea! Perhaps rather selfishly I made sure my son could make a cup of tea long before he turned thirteen.
ReplyDeleteSeriously though, if we are producing a generation that cannot recognise its indigenous wildlife, find their way without the help of satnav or survive a night outdoors then we should be very concerned - not only are we making an incompetent and ill informed future we are denying our children a wealth of enjoyment which should form the foundation of childhood.
Absolutely - redefining the idea of successful parenting or education is a vital part of this!
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